Anticipation of a great event can be almost as great as the event itself. You ever have concert tickets months in advance and experience the joy of looking forward to the event? I'm sure we have all experienced something similar whether it be a date, family reunion, whatever. Sex and the orgasm is no different. In fact, the orgasm can be made far more powerful and fulfilling when we heighten the anticipation involved.

The art of the tease: A great way to increase the power of the orgasm is to tease along the way during sex. Instead of a vigorous heading straight for the goal sexual experience, spice it up with some teasing. Do not plunge right in before the clothing has even hit the floor. Build it up to a more powerful finish. Here is a good way to do it. The goal here is to build a partner up to a heightened level, and back off a little bit. This may require a bit more self control, but this is a good thing. During foreplay, start slowly while building up intensity over time, then slow right down and move on. During intercourse, do the same thing. Build it up slowly then back off and tease her a bit with your fingers slowly.

If this is done properly, she will be begging you to finish her off because she is so turned on. I can assure you that this works, because I have had a girlfriend do it to me orally. She would slowly build me up until I almost finished, then she backed right off slowing down and teasing with her tongue. When all was said and done, I had a mind blowing orgasm that I will never forget. So, add the art of teasing to your repertoire and practice.

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