Lovemaking Mistake 1) Rushing Into The Action

You dont want your partner to feel like an object for instant gratification, do you? Sex is something that is special, something that help couples connect. By rushing into it, a bad taste will be left in the mouth should you "underperform". Go slow, set the correct tone with music that she likes.

Lovemaking Mistake 2) Neglecting Other Parts Of Her Body

Girls will like to think of themselves as more than a "tool" for satisfaction. Therefore, during sex, avoid just concentrating on her genitals! Play with her and take your time. I understand how difficult it is to control when "Your Friendly Brother" between your legs has a mind of its own but you need to exercise discipline if you want your girl to enjoy herself! Hug her, play with her hair, kiss her neck, lick her earlobes, whisper sweet-nothings into her ears softly...You get the picture right?

Lovemaking Mistake 3) Imitating Porn Stars

You think its hot, but she thinks its not! Acting like a porn star when you are not one is not a feasible idea. Getting your partner to do what the girls in porn movies do is the least to say awkward. Your partner might not be as professionally trained as you think she is and even if she obliges, it might not result in the "Results" you wanted and in the end, both parties are embarrassed. What you can do though to fulfill your fantasy is to turn on the porn movie and see if she pro-actively tries to learn what she sees. If you are leading her, be natural about it. Girls tend to be more shy about such stuff as she needs to connect with you mentally while guys normally just "demand" physical attention.

Lovemaking Mistake 4) Trying Too Hard To Please Her

If you are nervous, sex becomes unnatural. Just relax and see the flow of things. Some girls like to lead but the majority will like her man to lead. However, if you are trying too hard to please and asking obvious questions like "Does it feel good" everytime you change a position, it might turn her off. Girls like sex that is exciting, the art of making love is to do it without thinking, without hesitations! So go for it, enjoy yourself and make sure she enjoys herself too. We are afterall seeking a balance in things, it is a mutual pleasing affair that should always benefit both parties.

Lovemaking Mistake 5) Playing With Your Sex Toys More Than You Play With Her

Your partner might have agreed to try some new toys you bought, but dont be over reliant on them thinking that such toys will add spice into your lovemaking! These toys should be used for foreplay fun and not for the main course. Overtime, should you be too dependent on them to achieve something, like helping her reach an orgasm, she might come to a conclusion that sex toys are more "useful" for her and this will make lovemaking less fulfilling.

Lovemaking Mistake 6) Failure In Noticing Her Body Language

Generally girls need a longer time to reach an orgasm, on average 7.5 minutes. If your goal is to help your partner attain orgasm. Be focused! Do not get carried away with your one-sided pleasure! Some examples (This differs from girls to girls) that she is reaching orgasm include hugging you very tightly, rocking you hard, kissing you, as long as you notice a change of her usual behaviour from the start of your lovemaking will be a good indicator. You will notice that she actually wants to make love more than ever before.

Lovemaking Mistake 7) Attaining An Orgasm Before Her

Woman forgive but never forget. If you do this too frequently, she will find sex with you more a chore than a pleasure. If you tell me you have a problem with ejaculation control, a tip that I have is try thinking of irrelevant things during intercourse. Reaching an orgasm is all in the mind, if your mind is not focused, you might be able to hold out longer than her.

Lovemaking Mistake 8) Asking Or Demanding For Sex

There are times when woman generally are not in the mood for copulation. It will be obvious to you. At such times, it will be unwise to initiate sex. You can be touching your partner all over but if she doesn't even bother to touch you back, you know that sex this time round will be rather unexciting as she is just trying to "entertain you".

I have included more tips and tricks in this article I wrote: Lovemaking Secrets Exposed.

The author Tevin Sekai is a husband to a loving wife and have been enjoying great sex with his wife through the techniques he learnt in 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets.

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