Sex is pivotal in any relationship to do well. Humans are attracted to each other based on many factors with sexuality factors being an important consideration. That being said, couples who have been together for some time find themselves having no urge or want for their partners. There is a myriad of reasons involved which cannot be fully explained in this short article. I will however, share 3 tips that have improved sex life with my partner considerably. They work for both sexes and is highly recommended!

Tip 1

Find out what turns your partner on.

Simple enough you tell me. But most men like to jump straight into the action and find themselves showering alone, leaving their partners dissatisfied on bed! How many times have you as a man been unable to control your ejaculations and finishing the sex "drill" even before your partner is aroused?

When I mean "Find out what turns your partner on" I do not mean blatantly asking "Do you like it when I do this or this to you?" Your partner might be shy to answer such a question. Instead explore her body and you will find out (with enough practice) when she is genuinely enjoying it versus faking it (just not to hurt your ego)! Girls generally enjoy long foreplay and lots of kisses and hugs.

Tip 2

Try something new!

Sex becomes dull when you follow the steps in the instruction manual. Kiss, remove clothes, insert, take out...It is not automated! Make each and every experience different and pleasurable!

You can play with ice-cream, chocolates. Get your partner's consent or give a surprise! Most people are willing to try new things when persuaded gently by their partners. Everybody knows how important is sex in a relationship! Go out on a date with lots of hugs and kisses to kick-start the night to great sex! Behave like a new couple, hold hands in public, whisper naughty words, touch each other discreetly! If you have kids, have them taken care of by someone you trust! Remember, spending Quality time with your partner is very important to sustaining a healthy relationship which will ultimately benefit your kids when they see you so loving!

Tip 3

Foreplay, foreplay & more foreplay!

Foreplay turns on a woman and foreplay helps a man achieve sustained erection and longer intercourse! Essentially, foreplay is setting your mind into the mood for love. Start slowly, start anywhere, the kitchen, toilet...start somewhere new, be adventurous! Your foreplay will lead to you being "Extremely Horny" and hence making you a desirable "Sex Object" to your partner.

It's a carrot and stick approach. Think about it this way, when you want something really badly, will you perform well when you finally get it? Yes, you will! Foreplay stimulates the mind and body to release human pheromones that will absolutely drive your partner wild, crazy and wanting for you!

These simple techniques discussed here will help you improve your sex life considerably. To know more tips and tricks (Say 500 Tips on better lovemaking? You bet!) on Improving your sex life, you can read about them Here.

The author Tevin Sekai is a husband to a loving wife and also a father.

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