One of the biggest challenges many men come to me looking for help with is falling for a woman who is currently dating a jerk or is in an otherwise bad relationship. Instead of realizing that you are her emotional tampon and that even if she broke up with him she still wouldn't be with you. Many men like this choose to devote their time and energy coming up with ways to win her away from him.

Usually the first steps involve her saying that she wishes her boyfriend was more like you and then you revealing (any many ways) that you like her but she can't be with you because she is already involved in a relationship. It's at this point where as a man you must move on and attempt to get in a relationship with a woman who actually wants or is ready to be with you.

Yet, here you are looking for some way to end their bad relationship so that the two of you can begin the relationship that you have had in your mind with her since she first chose you to be her emotional tampon.

Truth is she believes that the relationship she is currently in is already the best option for her. If even for a moment she thought that you were a better option than her current man she would have at the very least broken up with him.

However, she chooses to stay with him while you continue to prove that you are less of a man than him simply because you are willing to put up with more crap than he is and you aren't even in a romantic relationship with her.

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