Usually, there will be awkwardness on the first date. This is unless that you know this girl for a long period of time already before you fell in love with her. If you don't really know this girl really well, it will be wise of you to come up with a list of conversation topics before the date to avoid embarrassing moments of silence.

There are some topics that should never be considered as part of the dating conversation topics. What I would recommend is to encourage the girl to speak by untying those knots in her tongue. A girl on a first date usually has a million thoughts going through her mind and it will be great to know how to extract information from her. It is like a doctor trying to elicit information from a patient.

Ask her things that you are still unclear of. Examples will include what hobbies does she have and what kind of movies that she likes. The genre that she tells you will be an opportunity for a second date. "I like action flicks too. You want to catch the Jackie Chan movie next Friday?" Be enthusiastic about her favorite genre but do not go overboard. Otherwise, she might think you have a thing for Jackie Chan.

Never ever ask her when it is her birthday. Find out this date from her friends or siblings. It is an additional surprise of her when you want to meet her to celebrate it in the future.

One topic that you should absolutely avoid on the first date is her past relationships. Never enquire about her past relationships on the first date. This is because women tend to compare the current guy with the previous ones that she dated before. If you need to remind her about her previous relationships on the first date, it is a chance for her to assess your negative qualities (that is why she broke off with those previous guys in the beginning) and to eliminate your name quickly from her "potential dating list". Discuss about her past relationships with her only when she is absolutely comfortable talking to you.

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