5.Be a gentleman. Little gestures go a long way.
This one seems like it would be so easy; Holding a door, offering a jacket, not walking ten feet in front of a girl. Yet, many of you seem not to have mastered the art of basic manners. It has nothing to do with "impressing" a girl but instead, it shows that you have a little something called class and respect (something that is severely lacking in today's generation). It may seem like an old-school ideal, but this one is a good judge of character.

6.Be CONFIDENT!
You may look good, but believe me ,your actions will dictate whether of not you are a solid person. Be who you are and be proud of it. Nothing is more of a turn off then when a guy tries to act like someone or something he's not. Confidence is key. When a person has a good relationship with themselves, it is natural that they will have a good relationship with others. In other words, you need to like you before you can start liking someone else. After all, women are blood hounds-they can sniff out insecurities from a mile away! For example, guys who find the need to boast their salary or even mention it for that matter = INSECURITY (and aside from being an insecurity, it is a really big turn off.)

7.Don't be cheap.
I am not saying that guys should have to foot the bill every time, however, if you ask a girl out, that means you pay. That is a general rule of thumb. Most girls will offer to pay out of kindness-I do this all the time! Half of the time I don't even have my wallet on me! This is not to say that I let a guy pay for every facet of the evening though. Most girls will offer to buy a round of drinks or pick up a parking fee, etc. In this case it is ok to let a girl take care of it, do not argue with her about it. Additionally, if you are ever out with another couple, and even utter the words "separate checks" you may as well just post a sign on your forehead that says "I am cheap!" It isn't rocket science to round the total of a bill and divide it by 2! Suggesting separate checks is extremely tacky and if you are that concerned about money, then maybe you shouldn't be out to dinner.

8.Don't sell yourself.
I once dated this guy that would back up every nice gesture he did by saying "its because I'm a nice guy" (literally every time he did something nice such as pay a bill, or offer his services), and it was such a big turn off, that I would forget what it was that he was even doing nice in the first place. This kind of behavior parallels the whole "actions speak louder than words" idea. There is no need to sell yourself to someone. First of all, if you do a nice deed it should be because you wanted to and because you're a gentleman. There is no need to introduce or close nice gestures with remarks like "because I'm a nice guy." Any girl will notice a nice gesture and will not need it to be brought to her attention. In the event she takes your gentleman-like ways for granted-ditch her and find someone who appreciates them!

9.Be honest. Lying isn't nice.
If you are not that into a girl, you need to tell her. Believe me; ANY girl will respect you more if you are upfront with her. If you don't confront her, then you either have really low self-esteem or loathe the idea of having no one. If you see a girl is into you, and you can't return that same affection, don't be selfish. Additionally, if you don't want to be tied down, say so. When someone gets the wrong idea about you, nine out of ten times it's because you gave them the wrong idea. Moral of the story: If you don't intend on calling her, then don't tell her that you will and get her hopes up.

10.Be prepared to do some work!
Show her that you are interested! This goes back to my favorite rule "actions speak louder than words." No girl wants a lazy guy. I'm not saying that girls should just sit back and relax while the man does all the work. Like anything else in life, it is give and take. However, it is the guy's job to get the ball rolling. Most guys seem to carry the "fear of rejection" gene in which they purposely wuss out of situations. Don't "sissify" yourself! Some situation may require you to take a leap of faith. Just remember: "It is better to have tried and failed then to have never tried at all."

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