When we watch a potential mate for the first time we are keen to discover two things: how they relate to others with their social potential and how they will relate to us.

We are happier if the two diverge. This is because each of us wants a different response that is offered to the rest to the room. So flirting with anyone and everyone in the room is not offered to be perceived as charming and alluring. The impact of your flirting will only be positive if it is reserved for one person alone. Splatter-gun flirting is a weapon that's best kept for a moment when you have been turned down in some way. It's done to make a woman in an existing or recently deceased relationship jealous, not to attract a new mate.

If you feel the person you want to attract has not noticed you, then get the host or hostess to introduce you. Never try to attract attention by loud or outrageous behavior, and avoid especially the loud laugh. This affliction can affect men and women of any age. If you find it hard to get rid off, at least you can turn it into a more attractive feature.

Finally, it is the big moment when you make eye contact with the person you like. You can affect a longer, slightly bolder stare, as though smitten by this person's great beauty. A woman will reciprocate by glancing for one second, then look away, but only a bit! After that, she will then turn to look back again, this time with a more meaningful glance and a slight smile. If eye contact is not an activity that comes naturally to you, it would be wise to give this key gesture a thorough work-out in the mirror first. It's not exactly industrial-strength flirting, but it is the first vital step in the dance. Most guys think that they are quite good at it until they checked in the mirror.

Once you have attracted attention and made a connection, resist the temptation to inform your friends, because they will all turn to stare. Instead, concentrate on your posture. Stretch your spine by trying to touch the ceiling with the top of your head. Take and release a deep breath. Pull your stomach in, but without puffing out your chest.

Make sure you are participating in your group's conversation and you don't look like a misfit. Be animated but remember that you have been mentally mesmerized by this love goddess you have just spotted. Glance back again. Smile. Make it a secret-looking smile, with no teeth showing but lots of eye-softening.

Congratulations! You finally captured her attention. Now you just need to learn how to speak adequately to make sure she's yours. Get the guide 'Guy Gets Girl' by Tiffany Taylor to learn how to muster confidence and go up to her to participate in an intellectual conversation to impress her. 'Guy Gets Girl' is a dating guide which teaches you the accurate dating techniques by a very experienced author. Get your copy today!

Janice is a student by day and an analyzer at night. She had helped dissect the romance lives of several men and assisted thousands of men to save their marriages successfully, increased their dating opportunities and enjoyed greater sex with the guide "Guy Gets Girl". Visit Guy Gets Girl to download a copy and gain a superior advantage over beautiful women today!

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