It's gird-your-loins time. You've been boosting your inner confidence to the point where you are bursting with the stuff; you studied ways to make initial contact and find ideal venues; so now it's time to start flirting effectively.

Young people usually start the hunt in packs. Traditionally, young males and females work separately. Often they will eye one another up from a distance, while remain within hearing. Most of the exchange will have been through eye contact. The process is listed as follows:

Getting Her Attention

Young pack members showing off will usually have done this. Loud laughter and mane-tossing is popular with the females, and in some cases bottom displays.

Catching Her Eye

The eye contact is somehow classified as meaningful. The eyes meet for approximately one second, which is about half a second longer than a non-sexual glance. The woman will then look elsewhere in mock embarrassment. Then they will look back, at which point the other person must still be looking. This eye catching can go on for the whole evening if both parties have the patience. If not, one of the couple, usually the woman, will smile slightly, which give you the green light to move over to start a conversation.

The Meeting

One of the packs walks across to the other and the couple talk. During this stage, there will be several preening or grooming gestures, like hair touching and some quite dramatic signs of approval, like face watching and over-loud, exaggerated laughter. Alternatively, females may traditionally take on the shy, different roles, blushing and looking away while the make talks. Most women would like to think that they have evolved beyond the glance-and-giggle stage, but we haven't. Put most of us in the path of an irresistible stud and you will notice a vast change in our body language.

Reporting Back

At this stage, the individual is still a firm member of the same-sex pack and will report back once the chat-up is finished. If it has been successful there might be a few lewd suggestions; if not then the repair work might include allegations about the exact nature of the sexual preference of the girl who turned them down.

Splitting From The Pack

At some stage the relationship may begin to get emotional, and when this occurs, the pack member will stop reporting back to the group. This will signal their temporary or permanent removal from the pack.

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