First of all let me thank you for reading this article on, How To Be appealing. It matters not if you are female or male, at some point in your life you want to be appealing. You want to feel like you matter. You want to feel attractive. You want the that guy or girl to think you are an appealing person. That you are somebody worth while. You can be appealing. You may say, not me I am to fat, or I am to shy. I just feel uncomfortable when it comes to the meeting the person I am attracted to. Listen to what this one persons says, "I believe half the unhappiness in life comes from people being afraid to go straight at things. ~William J. Look We could go into a whole streams of reasons explaining why you are what you are, but I see no purpose in doing so. You want be some one significant. You want to be a person that others are attracted too.

First, you must believe in your self. If you can not believe in you, believe that there is some thing in your life that defines you, and makes you who you are, then you are mistaken. Every person has the ability to see themself as a worth while person. What I am saying is,you must love yourself. I am not talking about a selfish love, put a love that sees good thing in others, reflected from seeing good in you. Do you look at people and see what they have and then see what you don't have? If you are one of those people, then you are not loving yourself and you cannot truly love another. Are you having problems with love? Perhaps you are one of those people who do not love yourself. Who do not believe in yourself. It is said, that we only use 10% of our brains. We have the ability to change how we think. If we change how we think, we will change how we view life, and change what we get out of life. I like to tell a story about a young boy who stuttered. This boy was afraid to speak in class. He was afraid to stand up in public. He believe that anything he said would only make a fool of himself, and if he tried he would fail. You know each time he tried he did fail. It was a self fulfilled prophesy. As this young boy grew into a man he still did not believe in himself. The only thing he saw was what everybody had or could do and what he did not have or could not do. Things changed for this young man and he became a Baptist Minister. He now stood in front of people. He now gave advice to people. This is true, because that young boy was me. I am no longer a Minister, because you see, I became a Minister for the wrong reasons. After 10 years I decided to do other things. The point of this whole story is, if you start believing in yourself you will discover a whole new world. Before, you decide to loose weight or take a weight loss program, or take dancing lessons or do whatever you desire to do examine your life, You need to start believing in your self. Before you can be appealing to others you must find yourself appealing.

Secondly, start practicing what you believe. If you realize it or not. You most likely do practice what you believe, but that can be the problem. You maybe practicing negative beliefs. You need to practice positive and rewarding actions. At first this is going to require a bit of a challenge. Change does not come easy. If you are conscientious in what you think and what you do, you will see change. Start each day, by finding something to be thankful for. Find something that you like about yourself. You may think what good would that do by finding good in my self? Thinking positive things leads to positive actions. We had to walk before we could run, like this quote, "Small deeds done are better than great deeds planned." ~Peter Marshall. Some times we surround ourself with negative people. Have you ever been in a room and the major conversion was finding fault. We do not realize how much negative talk leads to negative actions. If you want to Be Appealing you need to practice positive things, and positive things come from positive thoughts.

Finally you need to have a vision, "The vision must be followed by the venture. It is not enough to stare up the steps - we must step up the stairs." ~Vance Havner. Many times we have good plans, but never put them in action. If you begin believing in yourself, and start thinking positively and then give up you will not experience the great change which could have taken place. You need to decide what you want and discover the best way to accomplish it. What I have been telling you is not something we have never heard before, but most likely it is something we have forget. I think this person says it the best, "When my daughter was about seven years old, she asked me one day what I did at work. I told her I worked at the college - that my job was to teach people how to draw. She stared at me, incredulous, and said, "You mean they forget?" ~Howard Ikemoto. You are appealing! You are someone special! Now start believing. Answer this question who would you rather be around, someone who is positive and full of live or some one who is negative and complaining? Start believing You are Appealing.

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