How to approach women - Step 1

Get ready! One thing that is an important fact for you to understand, is that everyday situations are one of the hardest places to meet and talk to women.

Thanks to the media and actual creeps getting tones of TV time, creeping out a random good looking lady on the street is easier than ever. That is unless you have some very refined approaching skills accompanied with good social presence and charisma. This can mean the difference between you getting the proverbial cup of water to the face or her telling all her girlfriends of about this "amazing man" she met out of the blue in the most romantic encounter she's ever experienced.

So how do you prepare and gain a strong social presence and charisma to enhance your approaching skills? How do you approach women in a friendly and non threatening manner? I'll explain, read on.

First go out with different social organizations, social circles, your softball team, co-workers, friends of friends, you get the idea. Talk to all the women and learn what keeps the conversation going and what brings it to awkward silence. Make sure you take a mental note of what went right and what went wrong, which subjects or questions drew out the most interest and which ones she was quick to change the subject on. Women who take part in social gatherings will often let their guard down and will be more inclined to interact with anyone also included in the group. Do this until you feel comfortable approaching any woman, regardless of how attractive she is, and have an effortless, charming and sincere conversation with her. If you are having difficulty, just ask generic open ended questions and avoid questions that could be answered with a simple "yes" or "no" response. That should get the conversation going. All you have to do is wait for the right opportunity and then take action.

Once you feel comfortable doing this, approaching women will be easier in any situation. Take your newly honed skills wherever you go and you'll be amazed at the new social situations that will start to present themselves.

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Good Luck!

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