When men become complacent during any stage of datingm, they think their presence is enough to keep us around. And most of the time, they manage to keep you around even after you have complained for weeks that they don't put any effort into the relationship. Why? Because you are allowing them to treat you like that.

In many cases, it's too late to change the situation because he is already well adjusted. If this is your case, then it just might be time to reassess the relationship and move on to prevent losing anymore moments of your life.

Why does this happen? After the chase is over, men realize you are there, appear content and the chase is over.

This is partially your fault. You need to keep your partner interested. Don't let him make assumptions that you two are doing something during the weekend. Go out with your friends and family. He has to change his expectations after the two of you have become a couple. If you continually pick him up from the bar after a night out with the boys and have dinner made for him every night at 7 pm, how could you expect him not to get comfortable?

To prevent him from becoming comfortable, follow these tips:

¡¤ Keep him out of the comfort zone by making rules
¡¤ Make sure he realizes how desirable you are to others
¡¤ Never become lazy yourself; always take care of yourself
¡¤ Have your own friends and family life
¡¤ Be independent
¡¤ Keep your finances separate
¡¤ Change your mind occasionally
¡¤ Ensure you keep male friends you had before you started dating
¡¤ Do not run after him

A relationship needs to be equal. If you allow him to get the upper hand, he will eventually take advantage of the situation.

Brilliant Mode Publications was in founded in 2005 by author Kristin Marquet. Kristin Marquet has researched and written numerous articles on relationships. She has written two e-books, one on online dating and one is a collection of articles and essays on modern dating issues for the modern woman. Kristin Marquet is also known as a Media Darling as she is the President of Brilliant Mode Creative, a company that specializes in assisting small to mid-size law firms and day spas to become the number one choice in the marketplace.

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