Whenever you meet someone new, you try to impress that person. However, sometimes you are at a lost for words. Reasons include, you are afraid to say the wrong thing hence offending him or saying something unintelligent, making yourself look sheepish! I am going to let you in on a secret - The Top 5 Things Guys Don't Want To Hear About On A Date!

#1 - Your Ex Boyfriend

Do not ever talk about your ex boyfriend! If he asks you about it, just change topic by saying that it is something in the past which you will not like to revisit and you are looking forward to a future with him. Don't even say anything that has anything to do with your ex boyfriend like "Oh, My ex James likes fishing too like you!" Sorry girl, if you are seeing me, I am totally uninterested in your ex. If you want my opinion, I think he is a loser! If you keep talking about your ex, it only goes to show you are not ready to enter a new relationship.

#2 - Your Life Story

You are not an open book! Girls should always maintain that element of mystery around them. If a guy knows everything about you, but you know little about him, the relationship will not be strong. Also, during conversations, try to have equal "on air" time. This will ensure that both parties are enjoying conversing with each other.

#3 - The Complaint Queen

Try not to be fussy about things. Guys like girls that are easy going and good natured. A girl that complains about everything will lead the guy to assume that you are not enjoying the date and his confidence might take a hit and he probably will not ask you out again! Just be a nice girl and he will think you are such a sweetie and he will be asking you out again real soon.

#4 - I Am So Smart

Don't act all-knowing! Even if you know what he is bragging about is all half-truths and your knowledge in the subject matter is definitely better than him, don't "expose" him! You will hurt his ego badly. He might just be trying to impress you because he likes you. So just act nice and smile. Also, don't talk about Quantum Physics and Black Holes when he has no clue that the earth is round! Guys like to think that they are smarter then their girls. Just chat casually about topics that both parties have experience in and let the conversation flow naturally.

#5 - Trying Hard To Please

You may think that you are polite, ending every sentence with please and thank you. He might be thinking you are too formal! You need to strike a balance where such "political" language is concerned. Being too formal (read polite) might create a distance between you and him. He may also think you are either very conservative or you are playing hard to get. Either strategy will not work simply because guys like girls that are natural but you also need to exercise some discretion at times with the words you choose. Being overly friendly might create an impression that you are an easy catch!

The dating game is something that has never been figured out. Some expensive dates are just horrible, some inexpensive dates are simply perfect! If you are interested in great dating ideas, you can read another article written by me: 5 Cheap & Very Romantic Dating Ideas!

For something more saucy, you can try: How To Seduce A Man To Bed!

The author Tevin is married to a beautiful wife.

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