Why do some guys get all the girls? What's their secret? Why are you struggling to sustain an in depth conversation with the woman who finally got the nerve to approach? There is no golden rule or secret formula that will unlock the mystery for you. What you need to know is how to be prepared for this situation. The guys who you see with the beautiful women are often not the wealthiest, best looking or most endowed. They just know what works with women and knowing this are prepared for almost any situation.

There are certain things to keep in mind when you are about to approach women. These things can either make or break your "sales pitch".

The first thing to consider is, you. Are you in a respectable and presentable manner? Everyone knows that impressions are paramount in relationships and if you don't make a positive first impression, chances are you're not going to get a chance to make a second impression.

If you do a bit of research on the subject of initial impressions, one interesting fact you'll discover is that a woman will have decided weather or not she'd sleep with you after the first 5 seconds of meeting you. While this may be true for some women, it does not mean that your chances are gone if the 5 seconds don't go so well, there is still hope if your "tool box" is full.

Another crucial aspect of approaching women is eye contact. I know this may seem uncomfortable when you meet a woman, but it is important. You need to judge the appropriate time to maintain eye contact. A general rule of thumb is that females tend to maintain eye contact longer than men do. So make an effort to prolong eye contact longer than you would when you are interacting with your male friends but please, do not prolong eye contact. What may seem like an acceptable amount of time to maintain eye contact for you could potentially be interpreted as threatening and overpowering behavior to someone else. There is a thin line to tread here, but you'll get the hang of it. Pay special attention to her body language, and use some hand gestures to focus on something else. Do not look anywhere inappropriate, women are very observant and trust me, regardless of how sneaky you think your eyes are; any woman can tell when you're staring at her chest.

You are probably thinking, well this is all good and all, but what do I say when I first approach a women. There is no simple answer to this. It varies depending on numerous factors like your current setting, how many people are around and the group surrounding the girl you are trying to approach.

There are tons of other things to consider and to keep in mind when you are going to leap into the deep end. The more you know, the better prepared you'll be and the more success you're going to have. Check out these resources, I found them very useful.

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