It isn't most guys fault that they are who they are odds are you were raised o believe that being a nice guy would get you far in life and it is the right thing to do especially with women.

However, the truth of the matter is when it comes to being a nice guy with women you are at the bottom of the list.

If you are using online dating to attract women for a romantic or sexual purpose you can not write the words nice guy anywhere on your profile, and especially not as part of your screen name.

Now, this doesn't mean that you can not reveal your nice guy ways to women online.

It is highly recommended to list the ways in which you are a nice guy such as,

• Being a Big Brother
• Pictures with Your Parents
• Pictures of you Playing Sports with Your friends

If all you have to show for being a nice guy are any of the following;

• Treating women nice or with respect
• Pictures with your favorite kitten
• Pictures of you with your knitting group

Overall it is important that you remember a woman who is online or offline wants a man who can bring excitement or at least the potential to bring excitement in her life.

Men who reveal themselves as nice guys online have the same amount of success as nice guys' offline which isn't much.