Starting to date someone during the holiday season can be a tough decision for some guys to make.

Lets face it in less than 90 days you go from Thanksgiving to Valentines Day and this is with a woman who you just met.

Now, I know what some men are thinking when you read this.

If I start to date a woman now I am going to have to go to lots of family gatherings with her and perhaps even buy her a ton of gifts this year.

Then to start the New Year I have to go to another party and a month or so later buy more gifts.

Of course for some guys this wouldn't be a problem if they didn't also realize that many women are looking for a man during the holiday season because she just wants to;

-Get more gifts for Christmas and Valentines Day

-Not go to Christmas and New Year's Eve Parties alone

What makes it worst is after the holidays she might just leave since all she wanted was the gifts and company from you.

As a man if you find yourself agreeing with what I just wrote I want you to congratulate yourself on being a real "nice guy"

If you enjoy being a nice guy then yes you should absolutely not get involved with women from November all the way to the end of February.

All the issues listed here are problems only "nice guys" suffer from.

If you want to stop being a nice guy you can look up some information on what it means to be an Alpha Male and begin living in that way or you can hire a dating coach who can help you get exactly what you want from women.