So you met a woman just as or after the holiday season started and you suddenly realize that she either is or is going to invite you to her family's house for either Thanksgiving or Christmas.

At this point when and if she asks, you will have two options either saying yes or telling her no!

Below I will explain a woman's internal reaction each answer can get which in turn will reflect on you.

Hopefully by the end of this article your options will have gone from two to one as well.

If You Say Yes- First off she already has assumed that you will say yes, seeing as every year she has asked some guy to join her and every year some guy has said yes.

After you say yes; she will then wonder if you had other plans and if so why you were so quick to change them or why you didn't have anything to do in the first place.

If You Say No- Since she already assumed you were going to say yes when you tell her no her mind will go into shock.

Her response is going to be to ask you why not even if at first she says okay.

When she ask why not, your best response is going to be that you have other plans and to leave it at that.

Once she gets over the initial shock, in her mind, she is going to wonder what plans you have that are so exciting that you would "Reject" her invitation.

Secondly, since you will not be there before and during the gathering she is going to imagine how "great" it would have been if you were there.

In a nutshell you will turn into Prince Charming or whoever else she dreams about, even though if you had said yes and gone you would be just like every other guy she met.

In the end if you say yes you have the reality of you and every other "nice guy" she went with working against you, not to mention the fact she already thinks you don't have anything better to do.

Saying no, means you allow her imagination and fantasies to create her ideal gathering with you playing the role of her leading man.

As if that wasn't enough she also imagines you having a great time doing whatever it was that caused you to turn her down in the first place.