When you consider that most women on your average dating site receive at least 10 emails a day, it is easy to see why many men never receive a response back. I imagine most women would like to reply back to every email they receive, however women have jobs and lives outside of online dating so they don't have time to tell every single guy who sends them a boring email that they are not interested. Considering on most days that will be all 10 if not more emails she receives, it is pretty easy for me to feel sorry for women just as much as the men who write to them. If you want to increase your chances of receiving an email back from women it is important that you do NOT write a fan letter.
Simply put in your email do not; -Tell her how beautiful, hot, or sexy she is -Talk about sex or what you want to do to her Instead what you want to do is point out things in her profile that interest you (besides her pictures) and end your email with an open-ended question that challenges something from her profile. Women for the most part are all alike; the one thing they all like to do is talk about them. When you point out things she likes and is interested in, your email shows her you are doing more than looking at pictures. When you give her an open-ended question on one of her passions it makes you appear to be looking for something more than just looks. More importantly it guarantees a response since the best part of talking about you is having someone else ready to listen or in this case read it. In the end the more you focus on what is in her profile rather than pictures the more emails from women you should receive even though you may find yourself sending less emails because of actually reading and understanding profiles.
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