Many guys think that the reason why their openers are not working with women is because they are using the wrong lines are messing up their words. Yet, the truth of the matter is you can successfully open or pick up a woman without saying a word. If your body language and inner game is right anything you say or don't say is going to work for you. Most guys who don't have success with openers are doing at least 1 of 3 things wrong if not all 3; - Poor Body Language
- Not Maintaing Eye Contact
- Waiting Too Long to Open
If that wasn't bad enough men also have a tendency to look down when they are talking to a woman, so women being the self-absorbed creatures that they are assume that the guy is looking at her breast when in reality he is just nervous.Then again given the two options between looking at breast and being nervous I'll take breast so if you are nervous and can't look her in the eyes look at her breast maybe it will help you relax. If you want to increase your success at opening and picking up women the first thing you need to do is make a commitment at improving your inner game so that opening and rejection is not a big deal. Till then here are some tips that you can use to fake the funk until it becomes a part of you. You need to stand tall and in charge with your back straight and head up. When you see a woman you like don't wait till you figure out what you are going to say, instead walk up to her and maintain eye contact with her until she breaks it off. Even if maintaining eye contact means that you can not speak while doing it. You will be pleasantly surprised to notice how easy it becomes to talk to someone with whom you have kept eye contact with even if there was a moment of silence at the beginning.
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