If you ask most guys what is the most important part of being successful with women? Many guys will tell you it is having a good opener or pick up line is the most important. In reality, however, a good opener is about as important as job interview is to your career. In fact openers are in many ways similar to a job interview; in Both Openers and Job Interviews, - It is your official introduction to the other party
- Your body language and how you dress play a large part on weather or not things will go any further
- If you control the flow of the conversation you increase your chances of success
- You risk being rejected
- Even if everything goes well there is no guarantee that they will choose you
- You might have to do several before you find the right one
Of course what you believe about yourself and your reality is much more important than an opener.In fact if your biggest concern is the opener or which pick up line to use you is nowhere close to being ready to pickup women. Openers aren't important at all what is really important is your ability to get completely shot down by a woman and still be strong enough and believe in your reality so much so that that you approach the next woman as if the first woman was a complete success. Once you have reached this level of confidence you will understand just how important a good opener really is to your success with women.
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