If you want to be successful with women, be spontaneous, be adventurous, do things differently. Women like interesting and decisive men, knowing this, be interesting and decisive. When you’re confronted with a new and different situation, do you “err on the side of caution? Well stop it, change your viewpoint, look at things from outside the box... “err on the side of adventure, daring and action? What is your dating plan for the evening, dinner and a movie? Well forget it; take her to a hockey game instead. The sheer energy of the crowd will stir the emotions and give her an evening she’s not likely to forget. Not the hockey type, then go horseback riding, jump on a roller coaster, feel the wind in your face. When the evening is over (not too early we hope), she’ll be longing for the next date instead of thinking... “Glad that’s over? Show her that you are someone who lives and loves life and if she comes along for the ride, so will she. Enjoy yourself. It's later than you think. ~Chinese Proverb
Every man dies. Not every man really lives. ~Braveheart
Let us endeavor to live so that when we come to die even the undertaker will be sorry. ~Mark Twain
Carpe Diem (Seize the day. (Opportunity)) ~Horace (65 - 8 BC):Be a leader, be decisive show her you know where you’re going and how to get there. Women love confidence in a man, become that man. There’s an old expression that says “a ship without a rudder has no direction? Choose your direction in life, in business, in love, then set out to reach that destination. There will be difficulties along the way, face them head on. We have nothing to fear but fear itself. -Franklin D. Roosevelt Do not be afraid of where your decisions take you; make them, then make the best of them. There are some who are afraid of making a decision for fear the woman they’re with will not agree. Nothing could be further from the truth, when a woman finds a man who is decisive and has the strength of his conviction, she finds security in those feelings. We’ve all done this one... (me too). “What do you want to do??“I don’t know what do you want to do?? Wrong. This is not a beneficial conversation to either of you. If you’re dating, you know what makes her happy, use that knowledge and make a decision; your evening will proceed much smoother and the outcome more beneficial for both of you. Lead with firmness and gentleness, but lead.
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